Often we look down on ourselves for the mistakes we’ve made. We neglect to understand that making mistakes is apart of life, it’s what’s makes us human. Learning from those mistakes and allowing those lessons to elevate us in our growth and to increase our understanding is what makes us beyond human; spiritual beings having a human experience. So forgive yourself, embrace your mistakes and learn in order to be a better you.
Live long and prosper fockers,
Tiffany Michellé 🖖
No matter the circumstances, we must understand that #Life is here to #teach us. Everything we go through, good #feeling experiences and not so good feeling experiences exist only to teach us some kind of #lesson about ourselves so that we can in turn become better. Once we understand that, Life begins to make much more sense.
Tiffany Michellé
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This is the first time in a relationship that I didn’t put a portion of my happiness in someone else’s hands. Meaning that I knew that he couldn’t make me happy and therefore I didn’t burden him with that responsibility. I understood that my happiness could only come from inside of me. I was happy going in and I’m still happy even though the relationship came to an end. I own my happy and therefore I also own my life. This is also the first relationship I’ve experienced while being 100% emotionally healthy. I suffered no damaging emotional pain and I didn’t take his pain personal.
The experience showed me how ok I am with being single. Its funny how you think you desire an experience only to find that you don’t really need it. That’s tremendous growth for me because I used to feel incomplete if I wasn’t in a relationship.
We’ve been conditioned to think that we are incomplete if we aren’t with someone. By time you’re 30, family, society and etc. are yelling, YOU SHOULD BE MARRIED!! Then as soon as you get married, they pressure you to reproduce. Hey that’s what people are supposed to do, right? If you divorce, its shame on you!
In the middle of all those demands, not many people are asked, “What do you want?” We are told what to do, by religion, other people, the media and etc. And let’s not talk about the labels placed on our depending on our relationship status…
This freedom has put me in a entirely different place within myself. Now I know I have a choice, I have options. There’s absolutely no internal pressure. I can do whatever or whomever and still be ok! A relationship is no longer mandatory to me. If one happens, it’ll be complimentary, not absolutely necessary. I cannot describe this new feeling but I just love it!
You can learn a lot when you’re paying attention, especially to yourself…
Until next time my scrumptious lovebuckets,
Tiffany Michellè
In the past three hundred and sixty one days I’ve learned that…
The Unhealed will hurt me only if I allow them to
Lies will run to avoid the Truth
My energy is captivating but that doesn’t mean they are ready to receive me
The Universe does exactly what I ask it to do; it protects me even when my ego doesn’t want it to
My intuition is the best companion for this journey
The feeling I get in my chest when deception is near isn’t an indication that I’m not healed, instead it’s a gift. It forewarns me that my heart’s best isn’t their interest
People are scared to feel
There’s nothing wrong with the silence, it’s how I deal
This isn’t my 1st lifetime and I’ve learned the most in this one
The small star in my dreams is my son
My soul’s mission is bigger than the human things I desire in my life
Validation doesn’t come from being a man’s wife
Smiling is not a form of true happiness
Words without action are worthless
People will voluntarily reveal their weaknesses
In order to really understand others, it’s best to remain quiet
I wouldn’t mind living alone with the trees
No matter how much I hold on, I can detach just as easily
I’m ok with it just Being me.
© 2014 Tiffany Michellé
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