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A woman in #L♄ve…

man-kiss-woman-adam-art-last_10928You’ve prayed for it

Felt incomplete without it

Experienced envy of it

Yearned for it more than your breath

Without it you were on the brink of death

Short of it, you have nothing left

I feel compelled to ask. Are you really ready for love? Are you prepared for the helplessness that hits you like a flash of lightning in a thunderstorm? Are you emotionally equipped with what it takes to be in love? You state you desire love but are you ready?

When I met you, you were the prototype of a woman. You were strong and well put together. You had an essence that was attractive and your energy pulled me without effort. The sway in your walk would make anyone salivate. You were tantalizing. But even the stoutest woman will quake in unexpected submission when she falls in love. Especially if I’ve made her back arch and her toes curl. It will be the scariest thing she’s ever experienced. If she isn’t prepared, it will not only sweep her off her feet; it will cause her to lose her most precious possession, herself. She’ll find herself questioning her security, doubting her most innermost thoughts; she will feel powerless.

This is when most partners begin to see a woman they didn’t see before and sometimes it will push them away. Why? Because everything that you were before has been either tucked away and forgotten or it was washed away because it wasn’t real in the first place.

Once the L word has been spoken if a person is insecure, the nagging begins. The mistrust begins. The overthinking begins. It’s like you can’t help yourself and you don’t know why. Let me let you in on a little secret. All of these are symptoms from the vulnerability a person begins to experience after they fall in love or gain great feelings for another individual. Once you fall in love, if you are not complete within yourself, all of the insecurities you tried to hide or were unaware of, will make themselves shown, front line and center. And they will hit you and your partner like a freight train going south. Your once “caught up” partner will go west and if your internal issues are not addressed you will remain smack dap in the middle…stagnant.

Most people didn’t receive classes on confidence while in grade school nor in college. Most were not taught about love and relationships from their parents or elders. Most people aren’t cognizant in regard to dealing with themselves, let alone dealing intimately with someone else. A certain level of buoyancy is needed when dealing with love in relationships, especially when sex is involved and most people are not equipped for this. Most learn from experience, some don’t learn at all and if you find someone who’s willing to take the journey of finding yourself without judgment or ridicule successfully and devoid of insanity, you are a fortunate and rare person.

The best gift you can give yourself is honesty. Looking at yourself from the inside out might be the hardest thing you’ve ever done but it can also be the most worthwhile. No one wants to admit they are not superwoman but instead they’re human. As women, we have been taught we always have to be strong, first for others and then for ourselves but that’s bullshit. Despite what’s going on in life, you must stop and take the time to look in the mirror at your innermost vulnerable self and ask, are you really ready for love or do you need to learn how to truly love yourself?

Love is

free and beautiful

Love is

peace and patience

Love is

all things good.

Until next time,

TMichel-le

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Posted by on May 5, 2015 in Dating, Life, Love

 

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They might just be blind as #@!$

They might just be blind as #@!$

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Some shit just doesn’t work out. Every relationship isn’t meant to go on forever. Sometimes experiences occur solely to teach us something about ourselves. It doesn’t meant you need to question your self-worth. You’re enough, but you must believe it.  

Until next time my sweet little suga dumplings,
Tiffany Michellé

 
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Posted by on February 15, 2015 in Dating, Life, Love

 

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What’s it all about…

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No matter the circumstances, we must understand that #Life is here to #teach us. Everything we go through, good #feeling experiences and not so good feeling experiences exist only to teach us some kind of #lesson about ourselves so that we can in turn become better. Once we understand that, Life begins to make much more sense. 

Tiffany Michellé

Visit my official website and gain access to my recently released book, A Soul’s Stroll: A 40 Day Journey to Discovering Spiritual Enlightenment!

 
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Posted by on February 4, 2015 in Life, Love

 

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It’s almost here!! #ASoulsStroll

A Soul’s Stroll, 40 day journaling book by Tiffany MichellĂ© is filled with positive and inspirational, affirmations, quotes and poetry and geared toward guiding each reader closer to the beautiful spirit within! Release date 1.15.15 at tiffanymichel-le.com, don’t miss it!

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Posted by on January 11, 2015 in Dating, Life, Love

 

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A Soul’s Stroll by Tiffany MichellĂ©

11 Days & Counting


Tiffany’s sophomore project is a 40 day journaling book filled with positive & inspirational quotes geared toward guiding it’s reader closer to the beautiful spirit within them.

Join us on this divine journey to discovering your spiritual enlightenment!

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Visit http://tiffanymichel-le.com for more information!

Until next time my sweet little suga dumplings,
Tiffany MichellĂ© 💋

 
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Posted by on January 4, 2015 in Life, Love

 

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Tiffany MichellĂ©…#author page, #book and #love

Hey love bugs! Happy holidays to everyone! I certainly and sincerely hope all is well.

If you haven’t already, please add my facebook author page to your divine collection of pages you follow: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Tiffany-Michell%C3%A9/125199370860294

I am scheduled to release my sophomore literary project, A Soul’s Stroll: A 40 Day Journey to Discovering Spiritual Enlightenment, early January and I wouldn’t want anyone to miss out on the announcement! 

I appreciate all of the love and support!

Until next time my sweet little suga dumplings,
Tiffany MichellĂ© 💋

 
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Posted by on December 26, 2014 in Dating, Life, Love

 

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#Life #quotes

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Until next time my sweets,
Tiffany MichellĂ© 💋

 
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Posted by on December 8, 2014 in Dating, Life, Love

 

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