The Voice of LOVE…

In my mind, I have a writing. It’s not exactly Clear so I remain quiet so that I can hear. It Whispers; it’s a voice so sweet. It’s the voice of Love. A white Light encircles me from the crown Of my head to the foundation of my feet. The Voice speaks to me and says everything will be Ok. It tells me, there’s another love for me to Receive. It says that this love will Be true. It Speaks softly and says, this particular Love will Be just for you. The presence is so warm and Comforting. My skin tingles as I feel it’s embrace. This voice is the voice of God. I lift my head and I see my face.

Until next time my sweets,

Almostdating007

 

And I’d say …

Above all trust yourself, your true self. the one that yearns for you to not only give but to receive love. to love to your highest heights, to love with ease. To cure the dis-ease of your past, to find the only love that lasts beyond the love from anyone else, the love within yourSelf.

 

Until next time my loves,

AlmostDating007

 

You owe it to yourself…

Take a moment to ask yourself if you’re in your situation because you’re truly happy or if you’re there because you presume you’re doing the “right thing.” Historically, the “right thing” has been decided by someone else.
Isn’t it time for you to start living for Yourself?

Until next time sweet dollface suga lip honey dip babies!

Almostdating007

 

Don’t you worry…

“Don’t worry about losing love. It might look a little different the next time but its promised to always come back around.”

 

 

Until next time sweet babies,

Almostdating007

 

Eyes wide shut…

Ladies…

There are plenty of good men out there but there’s a catch.
If you’re so focused on the
untruism that there aren’t,
you won’t be able to see Him.

It’s been said, if you change your thoughts, if you change your mind – you can change your life. But if you put so much energy into believing that a person doesn’t exist, how can you ever see them in your reality?

I’ve heard so many ladies kick, cry and scream that they want a good man but in the next breath, she or another dame she calls a “friend,” will speak the most idiotic words ever known to woman…BUT THERE AREN’T ANY GOOD MEN OUT THERE or ALL MEN ARE DOGS! #killyoself. Do you mean to tell me that you truly believe that out of the millions of men in the world, none of them are good? Seriously?

What’s yalls problem?! I’ll answer that! You’re scared! You’re scared that if you believe he exists you’ll be responsible for attracting him, trusting him and loving yourself enough to love him and that would mandate you putting your heart on the line. You’re scared that if you do that, you’ll get hurt. You’re allowing fear to prohibit you from attracting and receiving the very thing your heart yearns for so much – Love. Now why would you ever go and do such a thing to yourself?

Idk who made you believe that you aren’t worthy of receiving every freaking single thing you desire but who cares what they said or what they did, FUCK THEM!

Listen to me ladies because I know your heart and I’ve been where you are.
Read this part aloud…Do it dammit!!!

I am strong enough, I am worthy enough, I am good enough, I am attractive enough, I am smart enough, I am sexy enough. I AM ENOUGH!!!!
(Go look in the mirror and say it over and over again.)

All you’ve got to do is believe it to receive it!!!!

Until next time my sweet babies, I love you all…

Almostdating007

 

 

Disclaimer: Don’t kill yourself. The statement is a figure of speech and I am not directing you to actually do it. If you do, because I have given this disclaimer I will not be liable. Please don’t though.

 

So you say you’re a side chick…

With a few minutes left for V Day on the West Coast, I’m sitting on the counter of my kitchen with my glass of wine, chocolate covered strawberries, sporting my Chuck Taylors and I’m thinking. So with these thoughts in mind, I’ll give you this…

No one is worth being unhappy for just to say you have someone on any day. Many times I’ve seen someone knowingly settle for less than they deserve just to feel the illusion of completeness. I’ve done it and it hasn’t gotten me anywhere and it hasn’t stopped being sad and sickening that we waste our time and effort being unhappy.

As I watched the facebook posts today I saw so many downing the “side chick,” you know the woman that a man keeps on the side despite him being in a relationship. I found the ridicule sad because I don’t find other people’s pain to be comical or something to be made fun of. When it comes down to it, there’s something emotionally out of wack with a person who chooses to set their happiness to the side or throw it completely out of the picture for any reason, let alone someone else. There’s a deeper issue there and instead of ridicule, those individuals need to learn how to practice self love until it becomes like breathing. They need guidance not harsh words.

I pride myself for making great strides and changes within myself. Letting go of toxic relationships and not allowing the selfish tendencies of others to guilt or hinder me. But I might not have been able to get to this point without help. Help from friends and family that love me and from my life coach. They say it takes a village to raise a child but sometimes it takes that same village to help an adult when the child in them is still suffering from emotional scars that have neglected to heal.

So with 0 minutes left on this Valentine’s Day, I want to send some love to the side chicks. I was once where you are and I hope with all of my heart:
That one day soon you’ll realize your worth!
That you’ll believe that you’re a truly amazing human being!
That you deserve to be treated like a queen!
That you deserve to be a priority and not just an option!
That you’ll put yourself first in your life instead of settling for second place in someone else’s!
That you deserved to heal and you deserve to be truly happy!

Much love my sistah and good luck…

Until Next Time,

Almostdating007

 

Sincerely…Life

So you made a mistake… Now that you’ve established that, what’s stopping you from forgiving yourself, making a change & moving forward?
Take your time answering that, I’ll be here all day… LIFE
© 2014 Tiffany Michellé aka Almostdating007

 

#Withinyou

Your heart aches
Your spirit breaks
Those you assumed were real were fake
Life doesn’t stop
Shit happens
That’ll never change
It doesn’t have to
It’s fuel to ignite the change within You.

Until next time my sweet babies,
Almost Dating 007