If you really want to find your mate, you’ve got to put some effort into it. You can’t simply depend on chance, luck, the Universe, God or whatever to drop the person into your life just like that. It’s like being unemployed and needing to find a job. If you’re determined, you don’t just sit on your ass all day waiting for the perfect job to land in your lap like a $5 hooker. You get the paper, post your resume on every job site available, talk to people about whose hiring and etc. You have to put in that same energy when looking for a mate. We’ve already been given the tools – Social media sites, online dating sites, places where singles mingle and etc.
So if you’re still whining, sitting at home every weekend and looking miserable because you’re dateless, it’s nobody’s fault but yours. If you’re insecure, scared and still bothered over your last relationship, there are life coaches and therapists that can help you. Some people assume that getting into a relationship will help them “get-over” their issues. But do you know what kind of people, messed up people attract? Other messed up people! No one deserves your baggage. Even airlines charge for that shit nowadays. It’s no one’s responsibility to make you happy, you have to do that for yourself. If you’re looking for someone else to validate you, you’re not ready to date yet anyway!
But maybe nothing is wrong with you. You’re emotionally balanced and just an attention whore, who probably has friends and family who are tired of hearing your somber ass crying about being lonely. If that’s the case, quit your whining – Get up, get out and discover what your heart desires. And if you don’t know what that is – Find YOURSELF!
A little tough L-o-v-e ain’t never hurt nobody ; )